Shaken baby syndrome refers to a head injury that occurs when a young child is violently shaken. It can cause serious neurological damage, manifesting as intellectual, visual, or motor impairments, as well as behavioral, speech, or attention disorders. This abuse, perpetrated intentionally by adults, sometimes in denial of the seriousness of their actions, represents the most severe form of head trauma in children, with infants under six months old being the most affected.
A government campaign has just been launched to raise public awareness of this abuse and thus better prevent its occurrence. It emphasizes that this tragedy very often happens when the caregiver becomes exasperated by the child's crying. Indeed, caring for a baby is not easy; it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But staying calm is essential, even in the face of incessant crying. So how can you manage this? If you're at your wit's end, why not take a break? It's perfectly safe to lay your baby on their back and leave the room for a few moments.
This rest is crucial for regaining your composure. A few tips can help, such as breathing exercises, a quick shower, soft music, or simply letting yourself cry. Don't hesitate to ask for help to avoid the temptation to shake your baby: there's nothing wrong with talking to a friend, family member, or anyone else you trust for support. And remember that certain reflexes can generally soothe your baby, who may cry for up to two to three hours a day for various reasons: hunger, a wet diaper, an uncomfortable position, boredom, or tiredness.
If your baby doesn't need to drink, eat, or have their diaper changed, try calming them by holding them and rubbing their tummy. While too much noise or visual stimulation can trigger or worsen your baby's crying, soothing sounds may help comfort them. Some babies can also be calmed by movement; in this case, put them in their stroller and take them for a walk, or rock them in your arms with slow, rhythmic movements. If you feel you might shake your baby in the next few moments, know that you can seek help by calling 119, the "Childhood in Danger" hotline, which is available 24/7.
Alexandra Bresson
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